Satisfy Your Id

I help men get out of their heads and get what they want.

First, some things I know to be true:

  • Men were taught to provide, not attract. Today women have greater freedom of choice than ever before, and many men feel lost because no one ever taught them how to be truly desirable.

  • Women aren’t necessarily wrong for being attracted to the “bad boy.” That attraction is often rooted in authentic sexual energy. But “good guys” aren’t powerless in this. A huge part of the solution is for men to reconnect with their own raw, embodied magnetism.

  • Most men are sexually repressed, not predatory. But public perception is shaped by the small percentage who cause harm.

I know this story intimately.

The men who pursued me with the passion and romance I craved often didn’t have the best intentions and left me hurt. The ones who truly cared were usually disconnected from their desire and didn’t know how to meet me on a primal level. So many women live this split: shut down by toxic dynamics or settling for someone who doesn’t light their fire. I do this work because when men of integrity step into their power, we break the cycle for everyone.

Here’s where I come in.

I’ve never been ashamed of my deep curiosity about sexuality, dating, and attraction. I’ve experienced the full spectrum. I married someone two months after meeting them, explored kink, polyamory, and my queer and gender identities. I’ve had tender partners who felt more like friends, sworn off sex after falling for a monk, and swiped through every kind of weird on the NYC apps.

I was meant to learn from it all. I lived it, I studied it. I know how to tap into people’s desires. But it’s not about learning tricks, real attraction comes from unlocking your unique way of expressing desire and owning it fully.

That’s why my approach is personal. I help you reconnect with the parts of yourself you’ve been hiding—the parts the world is actually waiting for.

And the main outcome?

Not only will you find the Confidence and Freedom to attract and pursue what you truly desire, you’ll get to experience how truly FUN this all can be.

My Approach

In heterosexual dating or relationships, we too rarely get and give honest, direct feedback about how we impact one another. Many women are conditioned to be nice rather than candid, leaving their partners in the dark about what’s happening internally.

Inside our relationship lab, I’ll give you real-time feedback so you can build the skills and confidence most men never get a chance to test or develop.

We’ll work on the subconscious level to build lasting embodied change, we won’t memorize surface level tips.

I am a Somatica® trained Sex, Dating, and Intimacy Coach. I am also a Reiki Healer and Hatha Yoga Teacher.

Trained In:

  • Nervous System Regulation

  • Inner Child Work

  • Identifying your Core Desires

  • “De-shamifying” Desire

  • Empowered Dating

  • Sexual Dysfunction

  • Trauma-empowered Coaching

  • BDSM & Sacred Sexuality

  • Breath-work

  • Meditation & Guided Visualization

I create a container for your full self to be seen and celebrated, while giving you honest feedback and helping you regulate your nervous system to see lasting change in your life.

  • “I found Madelina after being relationship-less and sex-less for years. I knew I wanted this to change, but after trying a few other types of coaching and therapy, I was skeptical. What makes Madelina different is how practical her sessions are. She doesn’t just talk about feelings-instead we do exercises that have helped me build my sexual confidence remarkably quickly.

    Madelina has an incredible intuition for knowing exactly what exercise will help you make the most progress, and her ability to build trust and rapport has made me feel comfortable doing exercises that I previously wouldn’t have imagined trying, even alone. That shift has made the idea of dating feel exciting instead of intimidating and has helped me approach relationships with more confidence. Within just a few sessions, being in a great relationship again feels possible for the first time in a long time.”

    Mark M.

  • “Learning on the fly was overwhelming and left me stuck in anxious patterns that made intimacy even harder.

    Madelina has been incredible at helping me slow down, connect with myself, and develop the tools I needed for deeper intimacy (and great sex!).”

    Amer M.

  • “My first Reiki session with Mad Life was nothing short of incredible. Even in just 10 minutes, I felt an intense warmth at the top of my head and entered a deep, almost trance-like state where I could feel energy moving through me. After the session, she shared what she had seen, including a vision of my late father, which was profoundly moving. It was such a powerful experience that I immediately booked a full hour session. That session allowed me to release so much emotion and brought a deep sense of healing. I am truly grateful for this experience and highly recommend her to anyone looking for deep energetic work.”

    Kim R.

  • “Madelina has an incredible force of spirit. Somehow magical little heating pads are imbedded in her hands— which thoroughly realigned my energy. After the session I felt at such peace. Madelina gives so much of her self in these sessions! Thank you for sharing your healing hands!”

    Josh F.

  • “My first Reiki session with Madelina was nothing short of magical. From the moment I walked in, the space felt serene and safe. She set the tone with soft ambient music, and as the session began, I felt a gentle wave of warmth flow through me—like my body was being recalibrated.

    When she moved toward my lower body, there was a distinct, almost electric hum—subtle but powerful. It felt like energy was coming back online.

    After the session, Madelina shared a past life vision she received while working on me. It was unexpected, incredibly insightful, and left me with so much to reflect on.

    I arrived feeling drained and ungrounded—and left feeling deeply nourished, calm, and aligned. Her presence is healing in itself.”

    Vi D.